Okay, so when you first meet someone and y'all start dating, how long do you wait to have sex with them? Do you wait a week? Do you wait a couple of days? Do you wait a couple of hours? How long do you wait or does it depend on the person that you're dating?
Okay, I'm going to be in the minority here. I'm asexual, so my feelings... I don't feel immediate sexual attraction. I have to have like an emotional connection first, and it has to be really strong for me to want anything physical. So for me to like stay true to myself, I have to wait. I usually wait until I am in an exclusive relationship and it's been going on for a while for me to eat.
I have to wait for a while to develop those feelings and yeah, I'm probably in the minority but that's just how my brain works. It's a little interesting, but yeah
And that's a good thing for you. And I feel like that's also discipline behind that as well too. So with you thinking like that you're more of an emotional connector that gives you, you know, knowledge about that person that allows for you to decide whether or not that's something your way into it.
I'm in the same boat I have to have that emotional connection and like I've gone on dates before where you know they wanted to like come back and try to like fool around and my body just won't let me do that because it's not responding that way like someone else would like I need to feel you out and like see if I really want to give you that emotional side of me
I mean it's whenever you feel ready I mean it really boils down to the connection and make some people sleep with each other on the first date that's real chemistry some people have morals and don't some people don't ever feel comfortable and they don't continue dating
I think this is more of a man question because they are the ones that have this biological need to have sex, period. But me on the other hand, I can go months, years without sex. I rather connect with the person. And if I do it, it's just because I know they want to. I'm alright without it.
I agree. It definitely does depend on the feeling, but we also have to be honest is that I also believe that females do know within a matter of minutes or an hour or so. if she wants to have sex with someone, not even building a feeling or emotional connection.
Most women that I know in today's society, they'll typically wait a month at the most two months. Truthfully, some women that I've known that I've had one that I've seen, they've ended up long term relationships with those guys who they had sex with on the first date. But I mean not one that I've seen, but you know what I mean. I don't know if I have sex on the phone.
Some women that I've known that I've had sex on the first date they've ended up in long-term committed relationships but that doesn't happen for everyone. Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there sometimes it's just a physical attraction but it can happen. But yeah most of the time the woman that I know that waited to have sex about a month or two not to say that the guy's gonna remain faithful within those first two months he may or may not be dipping his dipstick and none of other women while he's waiting.
he's waiting for you to submit and be intimate with him, he may be having sex with a woman to fulfill his urges, his needs or whatever, but if he respects you enough to wait and not force himself upon you, not beg and plead and try to push his, he'll be pushing and controlling, and you decide to give it to him and you end up in a long-term relationship, hey at least you waited until you were ready and you weren't forced or pressured, but you would also have to consider who he's been with before you and during you and whether or not he's been tested and you should should know his status at all times.
Yeah, honey pie, I've no females that did things on the first night and they are actually married to that person. So I don't think it's more of a time either. I think it's more like if the feeling is mutual.
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