So I have a problem on my mind that I need to talk or ask you actually do you see a problem if his mother is so effective I don't know how to say to his sound like for example he takes her advice is he ask her for everything about you and something like this because personally I think it's a big problem because he needs to be here by his own mind in his own way he needs to treat treat things like he knows to not just go with what his mother says

I think if his mum is giving him what I think is good advice, then there isn't a problem with taking their advice. But if he does everything his mum says or like... I feel like I understand what you're trying to say and if he's just like whatever mummy and that can be a problem.