Alright y'all, let me get in y'all's business. What questions do y'all ask somebody that you are interested in? Like for me, I like to ask them What happened in their last relationship? Why are they single now and have they healed from it? What about y'all?

I can't think of particular questions right now, but I like to ask open-ended questions to try to figure out what his mindset is about a variety of topics.

What's the relationship with your mom how often do you see your kids how long you've been at your job do you have a car where you live and who do you stay with that's up shit all that give me that is so secure

Those questions you say are very important but besides all those answers that he is going to give me, I just try to analyze him as much as I can at the end of the day.

I'm going to ask questions to know how self-aware they are because I think that's huge.

you can ask them why their last relationship ended so that way you can conclude what is their current behavior

I'd like to ask him do you have a retirement plan um am I gonna be on your will Can you put me on your life insurance oh wait I'm still not on my Nichols life insurance guy

I have like a whole long questionnaire for them starting with personal desires, what job they have, if they like cats.

So when I'm on a date with someone, one of the very first things I ask is how far along, like how serious was their last relationship and how long they've been single from that, because the answers can really surprise you.