Do you date more for looks or personality? I am leaning more towards of dating more for the personality. Looks no longer does anything for me no more. You can be a fine ass dude and lack a whole lot of other areas and that's not getting it for me no more. So what do you date for? Looks or personality?
Listen, we all have to be honest with ourselves, looks are what originally attract us to somebody, but personality is what keeps us there. So everyone, the first thing you know about anybody is what they look like. And then from there, how your personalities connect.
You're right looks is what we we all look at but Some people don't necessarily like to just go With the looks all the time Some people like to see how a person would act along with those looks because sometimes the personality is not going to match the looks.
I would definitely have to say personality I think a lot of people have this illusion like looks is going to do it or Alex is good enough when it's actually not because people just be empty and shallow that's not gonna work
And again, I will have to agree, it's definitely an illusion. I had to grow up and realize and understand that looks are definitely not everything. is definitely the personality that will attract me to you more.
Yeah, I dig for the personality because all these beautiful women do not know what to say. They don't know how to talk. It'd be awkward. You know, could they be dead silent? You know, so I gotta ask all the questions and all that. No So we actually can have that chemistry together. You know what I'm saying?
OK I used to date for personality which was sometimes successful but not all the time either I'm older and everybody thinks when you get older you should kind of lawyer expectations but I really don't want to and I'm just gonna tell you why it's not like all the older you get you know the less you expect out of life they always say it like that you know I want I want to be with somebody I really find attractive in always
For me, it's not either or. Realistically, he's gonna want me to engage in extracurricular activities with him, right? And if he's over there looking like, who did it and why, then am I really gonna be wanting to do all that with him? No. And as far as personality, I am mostly concerned with him being highly principled and well practice and write thinking and I'm not gonna budge on that period.
That said, I don't watch TV or movies and I hardly follow social media, so my standards probably are not skewed when it comes to looks. However, something I will not bend on is health. For me to consider a man, he must be mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically healthy. So that is going to trend towards him looking good, but he doesn't have to have movie star looks.