So lately I've been trying to run my own lakeside business and then I'm also getting into the real estate world I have two kids and a husband I'm trying to be able to do all those things but also having some my own hobbies that I do and I feel like I don't overwhelm sometimes I've latest want to do so how do you guys do it because It's crazy like trying to fill my cup my husbands cup my keeps cutting onions his wife chores everything like it can be like kind of overwhelming so how do you do it