As we continue to grow in relationships you should continue to ask yourself this person who's in front of me now as we've grown and changed and I've learned more about myself and seen more from them would this be something knowing what I know now about them someone that I wanna start dating always keep yourself consistent making sure that your needs are being met and you are who you want to be and you're going where you want to be going

You brought up a really, really, really great point that things change, people change, and you know, whether it's the journey of growing together or doing your own thing and seeing where you stand, it's very important to keep checking in and checking in with yourself because you've got to have enough self-respect to know whether or not you should stay or go. good point.