Or even bring it up at all in any way shape or form then baby we're not gonna get it we're not gonna be together honestly the first year and a half if I feel like it that's like we're gonna have to talk about it you know I mean cause it's like I'm not getting any younger so it's kind of like yeah that's this is a good question I ask this all the time but I would like to see what other people have to say as well

Right like I feel bad if it's like a year to have two years tops honestly because that's a while so we've been together for a minute do you know my age and Alex we're having the same conversations over and over again what do you want to do like some people rather just waste your time instead of just being upfront about how they feel

Honestly as I get older three years is a long time to be with someone and not know what you what's your plans are in the future honestly my limit is like two years now that I think about it but three years is definitely good like time frame because if you starting at 27 and 30 you can start again some people be in relationships and they be in there for 10 years and they don't even know what to do because it's a whole new dating landscape