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I'm super curious to know about this topic because going up my mom literally told me everything like drama Charles of the relationship financial issues going to help all of that and I was super young at the stage and like I feel like all the stuff that she did tell me and share with me I should have known her young age because it just made me feel like you know I was in the way I like there's no way I could've helped and just like it was a lot going on in my little brain at that age I like I know when my daughter goes up but I'll be more open with her but I got a super young age I'm not gonna tell her it's not like would you know I will be open up with her but I don't want to tell her stuff that's going to affect heard any sort of way any negative way so what are your opinions on this is something that you would do as well or would you just because clearly you don't open and honest with her throat like her whole life
No I mean like you said it's the kids start to feel like they have some input in it or like it's their fault and I definitely wouldn't feel that same way so now when you're young you're just supposed to be happy set a moment but definitely not stressing over stuff like that
Exactly that like that's what I really struggled with when I was going out because I might be still open in August but everything's with my dad and I she's like what I really struggle with like in all because of me being here it's basically my fault and I think it's really like depressing and pretty shitty to feel but I don't ever want my daughter to feel like that
Yes the most that I deal with was like my parents were separated and my mom always like made me feel bad because she said that my dad kind of like chose like to his wife at the time over me and like I would see them fight over like why didn't he pick me up now my childhood trauma coming on stereo but I think that's the only thing that I dealt with it I was like wow like they're really fighting over why they can't have me you know
I'm open and honest with my kids to a point and to what their emotional and mental capacity is at that time. There are some things I don't share with my kids because it's not something they need to know. You know, finances, issues that I have aren't things my kids need to know about. So yeah, share to a point, but not that much.
Hello there I do believe being open and honest with children is necessary yet it depends on the situation the question or whatsoever for example if your four year old asks like where do babies come from I suppose it will be a different answer than when you're 16 years old asks where do babies come from
As I do believe if a child knows like way too much at a young age I believe it'll be more of a burden than something positive like I don't believe it'll have a positive outcome
No I definitely feel like my mom did this to me too and as I don't want to bring like I had to step up and help and I felt like I know that I was in the way and I have a bunch of my mental problems is probably related to that and you know I definitely don't want my child to feel any way that I did if you know and even when he's older I don't want him to feel like I know he was a burden to me Or anything like that
This is a very good question I actually grown-up my mom did tell me a lot of information and mainly it was like the whole financial stuff and yeah it's definitely hard to like figure out how to help them especially when you're young and I making money and stuff but but yeah I think I would definitely stay limited depending on what it is like if it's all right I feel like I do wanna be honest with him about like his whole dad situation
No I deafly will be keeping all that kind of stuff private until they're old enough to want to ask about that kind of thing but they always know that the parents love each other and they will never have to see us fighting or anything like that May I would especially financially shit out of that because they do not need to think about that that young