OK so I've been married about for 13 years until my husband so I'm gonna say yes it's a great thing I'm not saying lose my God I'm saying lol they wow but um what's the dating scene like him or women even asking men out or a guy still you know women still sitting back waiting for the Mets asked him out My single friends they say it is so hard to date now so I'm asking you guys arm and women have you ever asked a man out and would you ask a man out like is that still like a double standard or are you like hey I like what I see I'm a go for it show me to let me know

I think they are more now but at the same time I think the only time a man says yes is when he sees he's going to get something out of it most times men will automatically say no it is don't care about getting anything out of it and I absolutely do not like it

I don't think women are asking me out on dates because I think women need to understand like their self worth and that they are the prize in an asking man especially in his patriarchal if your tongue by patriarchy that doesn't make sense

I like the women are asking the men out on dates because you know the men is always doing it all the time so let's just switch it around a bit and Let the girls ask the men out sometimes cuz I know us girls be like a little shy But you know Yeah, get out that comfort zone and ask them out, you know if you like somebody get that one you see it you like it you want it go get it you know

Um, so I'm married, but if I wasn't, I'd probably for sure ask a guy out. Um, I get what you're saying about like the prize and stuff that you're the prize. However, I feel like there's a lot of guys that are just shy or like, um, self-conscious and so they already assumed they were gonna say no, so they wouldn't even ask, you know? And so giving them that option and like breaking that wall, I think would be helpful for a lot of dudes.

Women are asking men on dates men are asking women on dates I'm in a relationship I've been in a relationship for three years so when I got in college I got into a relationship that's the only relationship I've been in since high school and I've just been observing like my friends are struggling out here like the guys don't want to pay for anything the girls have their so expectations that they've has since child is a mess out there

fuck no

I've never been in a day or like taking anyone any day before so but ask like ask you first always been the first one in to say if you like if we want to be together and stuff like that so I always been the one to say that

Yeah, I know women who ask men around dates and I don't see nothing wrong with it. Now she's always asking and he never does, then that's a different story. but it's okay for women to ask too.

Me personally I'm bored as fuck like I'll be going out to like people if I'm single and be like oh you're cute you like mad fine or like I really want to get to know you like how was your day and I'll try to get another and then I'll do A little dishes then I get married and then it goes with it goes you never know if it's gonna work out or not

Yeah, I'm not asking a man out on a date. Now, if it's my boyfriend, fiance, husband, whatever, of course I'll play in dates for him. But if I just met someone, yeah, I'm not going to be the one to reach out and start things. Because I feel like the man is supposed to set the tone. He is the leader. He's supposed to initiate everything. So as a woman, you know that's not my job. the man is supposed to set the tone for us, not me.