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Whatta, whatta, whatta, whatta, this is my favorite piece of fruit and I got a question. I'm also a diva, so is it just me or is there a level of sexual tension that's needed for a great friendship? Is that a normal thing? Don't judge me now, step lightly, but help me navigate that thought. Like am I the only one who have friends who I never crossed that boundary with, but sometimes we get lost in a little sexual banter. What is that? Help me figure that out. Y'all have a great one.
Toxic as fuck. Ain't nothing to figure out. It's toxic as fuck. If you want to be with them, be with them. But don't. Got them walking on the street now.
That's deep. We can't have sexual tension because then I'm just fucking you. I do need you to understand my sexual desires and be able to relate and listen to my stories and hee hee and ha ha and shit like that.
Oh nah, if I have friends I ain't ever crossed that line with, we don't even talk about that type of shit. I allow them to talk to me like I'm one of the guys, I don't talk to them like they one of my girls, cause that's just too much detail for they life, but yeah.
I swear I'm not coming for you. I used to deal with this. Um, I found out it came from childhood traumas of wanting to be wanted. Um, I don't think it's needed, but in relationships for sure.
I mean there's context to it like I don't want to fuck all my friends I don't but really most of them I don't so like I mean you can have flirty banter but I flirt with everybody I flirt with strangers so like no I don't think it's necessary
Damn good question. I have sexual banter and flirtation, you know, with friends or whatever, but if it gets to a point where the tension is built up, I'ma wanna fuck you at some point. I'm sorry. We ain't friends no more. Or we friends with benefits.
Yeah, I mean to your point, like if it's a friend that like I'm physically attracted to, I mean the sexual abuser might be, I guess it depends what we mean by sexual abuser, but yeah like if I'm directing it towards them then yeah I'm gonna wanna fuck but um if it's
But if it's like, you know, me just talking about like my sexual escapades or whatever with like my friends, then no, that's not the same. But yeah, if I'm actively like putting it out there, then yeah, I'm probably trying to fuck you.
Okay, that's a lot to unpack in 15 seconds. Um, I guess it depends on the friendship and what you're attracted to. I'm attracted to men, so I definitely had male friends that I was sexually attracted to. Um...
um however with my female friends um i mean i've had friends where i'm like wow that girl's really pretty i think she's really dope so i guess there's some level of attraction but like for me it's not like sexual attraction because i've never been like
Never been like, oh, like, you know, I want to sit on their face or something like that, though. I don't think you need sexual attraction just to have sexual banter. I think you guys just have to be on the same page and want to talk with that person.
I mean I pretty much flirt with everybody so if there's some flirting with some sexual tension there Oh yeah, we are absolutely smashing at some point.
Uh, maybe, now that I'm thinking about it, maybe a little bit because you know, you have to be friends with somebody before you get in a relationship. My girlfriends, maybe not.
Wait a minute, hold on, not- don't just listen, answer my shit yo! That's some real Aquarius energy shit, I just read in that. Ahhhh, not you force feeding us! I'ma let you do it though since you're no Aquarius, I'ma let you rock-