So I just had this debate on the other day with this guy that sings I don't know how to be but kind of just wondering like when do you all think is the best time to like let your partner significant other etc. etc. no like what you like in the bedroom like do you like kind a let it play out for a little while to see just kind of like how they operate and like naturally find out or do you want to like just lay it on thick like early on like hey that's what I like what I don't like like after the first time you guys have sex Or do you like play a cool and Taylor OK this is why I like that I let her know like the wings like the last minute so that way you are satisfied I just like laid on in the beginning and I wonder I just wanna know if I like because it's all obviously gonna be different if it's like not your girlfriend or boyfriend I can you know exclusively with that person obviously if it's just like casual like here and there I don't really know how serious it would be but I want to know like what y'all think and what are your thoughts

Immediately talk about that shit immediately

I mean I feel like we were talk about stuff like that I don't know not just like hang I like this or I don't like that but after you do something and you noticed like oh I don't like that

But I will most definitely speak up about some thing I don't like him I don't know about during the moment I mean that's kind of awkward but I mean I am I say some thing but yeah

I feel like I'd wait till in the middle of both like you don't want to tell him too early because I do think it's kind of fun when you're first off dating somebody to try to figure each other out on your own

It's important to do it early and you Gotta know what you're compatible with you Gotta know what the other person likes you Gotta know that way you like it's gonna be mad at least 75% so not necessarily first eight to chat but by date five they gotta know what you're into

I definitely feel like it's best to have these discussions early on because if you wait too long to say something Somebody might get their feelings hurt. So in the beginning definitely talk about what you like and what you don't like that way you guys can start off good and then keep getting better from there.

Honestly in my opinion once you start being physical with that person you should start putting down your expectations because if they're not doing some thing that you want like now what makes you think they're going to be doing at six months from now you kind of have to like figure out what each other like and if you're down to do that or else don't waste each others time

Not low-key there's not necessarily a good time for her because like what if what if she comes out you talk Muslim let me spit in your butt crack what are you gonna say to that

I don't know, I think as early as you want, as early as you feel comfortable too.

So I am I love this question as a man I always tell my other male friends ask right away I mean obviously maybe not the first thing we talk about before you do anything ask questions that's how you get to learn in person it makes it easier for you to satisfy somebody and then in return she gets to know you too But yeah it shouldn't be a puzzle