Have you ever been ghosted before? Like how did being ghosted make you feel? I've been ghosted before and I know like that's not a good feeling. It makes me feel like they ain't like what did I really do to you for you not to let me know what I did to you, for you to actually block me and be like the hell with you. So if you've been ghosted before, how did it make you feel? Let me know.
Yeah I've been ghosted before but I don't care because like you know how many girls I ghosted like as part of the game and if you don't understand that then maybe you should know because me anyone says everything I have the money File says can't handle it anymore what is my feeling so much to do anything with me stupid girls who is
Cut it out, cut it out, cut it out, cut it out. But let me ask you a serious question of being that you have ghosted many women before. How did you feel when you ghosted the women that you ghosted? tell me about that.
It doesn't like at first I feel like shit like horrible but then you don't have us do you so many times as I know I don't really care if there is sometimes it's easier to go to people I know it's like more adult not to but at the same time you deal with so many reactions just being straight up with them they're like so childish and shit but I'm like you know what I don't give a fuck this is a fucking app you know or whatever this is it I don't even know these people in so they shouldn't
I I feel you I definitely understand where you're coming from but stop ghosting folks Be straight up Get I would say get to know the person outside of the app, especially if you like them more or whatever, but Stop coasting folks!
Yeah I've been ghost before but sometimes like I think the way you have to live life and handle rejections help me handle getting ghosted it's not that big of a deal to me anymore just like annoying if anything
I wish people would just be more fun with their communication because sometimes those things can really be solved by having a conversation but sometimes they think kind of avoiding the rejection and Hanami and controlling the situation makes it better
I mean I have been ghosted before, everybody just don't care. Like if you don't text me back, you don't text me back. Like I don't gotta text you back either. Like you know what I'm saying? Like we both get ghosted each other. Like you know what I'm saying? I am going to keep texting.
I need your attitude. I need your attitude, like, because I just be like, so I call myself trying to not text somebody back the other day and he was like, I text you and I'll hurry up and It's not bad. That should be stupid.
Yes, and even if you're getting ghosted, I think that we need to look at it as it being a good thing sometimes because we can be saving ourselves from a million of things. don't even, I can't even just name when we can be saving ourselves from a lot of things.
And swell I have to say that I have ghosted people as well maybe for you know not being emotionally available for them or maybe do not have the courage to tell them directly but I'm not interested in having some thing serious
Not dating wise or anything, but I got ghosted today by a new mom friend. We had plans a whole week ago to hang out today. All the way up until this morning, I double checked with her. Everything was a go. I showed up to the restaurant. She never showed up. I called her. I texted her. Nothing. She didn't call or text me either to let me know that she wasn't coming. And it's been two hours. Like I still have not heard from this girl. So I'm just giving her a chance to hear her excuse or reasoning for not showing up. But if it's not good, then I'm cutting her off. I'm going to be through.
Oh my god, Christina, I am so sorry to hear that. Wow. That, wow, that being ghosted period is not a good feeling. And then for them not to even just tell you that they're not coming or to even have the balls is not okay. So whatever reason that she gives you is not, not even gonna be, you know, a good enough excuse. so I'll let it go already.
Yes unfortunately I've been ghosted before girl and I was so confused because Albans was so sexy and solid at least that's what I thought and then when I let it fall to the wayside he come with all these dear John that is a shit about why he did it by that time I was over it
I don't like that. I hate the excuses. The excuses just be beyond me. Like if you had to work on yourself, why could you communicate that? Especially if you're an understanding person, that shit is just dumb and wow. It's dumb and it's stupid.
I've been ghosted for having boundaries which to me just proves that a lot of people will just sit there and you know portray this facade just so that they can have some type of tied to you and not necessarily have the consequences of anything you know I'm saying but I don't look at it as Allah's I look at it as a again because at the end of the day it teaches you what not to settle for what not to
What not to allow and all that other stuff, you know, so it's definitely a gain It's unfortunate that a lot of people though, you know are Not holding their boundaries as such a high stance. I feel like in today's age. We have to definitely Push forth, you know, this is what it is the reality of the fact that a lot of people are compromising their own comfort for shit.
Trinity, you said such a mouthful of things set in boundaries. Um, allows for people to go shoot. Everything that you said is so true because I've been ghosted for setting boundaries. They'll be like, um, you don't fuck with me, this and that and that, all because I'm setting boundaries for myself, so I get it, and I definitely understand.
I've been ghosting once and it literally felt like crap and he was like during like his prom thing and he didn't invite me to his prom so it was like right after that he ghosted me.