All right guys tonight question of the day is are you an only child or do you have siblings and how many siblings do you have and if you have kids or if you want kids that being an only child or having siblings influence how many kids you want let me know
So I come from a big family and so does my husband and that definitely influenced us having kids. Growing up with a lot of siblings was just a lot of fun. Always someone to play with. It was always a good time in the house. And I wanted that for my kids, but we stopped at three because you know, reality. But yeah, growing up in a big family definitely had an influence on me having kids
Okay, so you're the oldest and you have two younger brothers and then you had a daughter and two younger brothers That's pretty crazy. That's like generational. So that's like the thing in my family Like me my mom my grandma were all the only girl and were the middle child So we have an older brother and a younger brother And I always thought that that was like so wild that like each generation had the same thing
I have siblings. I have three brothers and a sister. And there's a huge age gap with my brothers and sisters. So I felt like I was never really part of the group, I guess. But my kiddos are all like two years apart, so.
I totally get that my older brother is almost 13 years older than me and we really didn't like develop a relationship until like I was an adult just because he was always like he was an adult and I was like a kid I don't know so I deafly know what that's like and I also wanted my kids to be closer in age because of that as well
So I have two brothers, so it's just me and two brothers. And I want like a minimum of four kids and yeah, I would say 100% having siblings has influenced me to want that many kids.
I think it's really interesting so far that I haven't had anybody say that they have siblings and they only want one child like everyone who has siblings says yeah I want my kid to have siblings as well so I think that's really interesting
I've been an only child for 18 years and I am going to have a baby sister in a few months I'm not really ready for it I'm not sure how like I don't know what to spec because I'm still in the shock but yeah and I'm not sure how many kids I want in the future I don't think I want any or maybe I do it
Oh my goodness congratulations I'm sure that that's a very like weird feelings and kind of emotional for you but that's honestly really cool it's going to be great I'm sure that you will bond with her in your own way my older brother is almost 13 years older than me so it took a long time for us to really bond so the age gap's can definitely be hard but that's definitely exciting and yeah I wish you guys the best of luck
Oh so I'm the oldest in the family I had two other siblings addition as I'm never never in my life back and I I had my whole lesson learned never gonna have other kids I'm only gonna have one because I'm explain
Hey so I'm gonna explain anytime I have like people who have like that that same thing like me like having three separate two of the siblings I swear their whole life is as the youngest the middle and they all this is they always have a bad life
I mean the kid who is the youngest is a golden child right we already know we're golden child means it means that like oh I can learn the parents and control them easier and the old is the oldest is just a scapegoat the black sheep