So I would like to know if there's anyway possible where jealousy could potentially be healthy in a relationship meaning like OK some girl walks up to your man and if you're just chilling I feel like your man want you to trip just a little bit like get up back up off mommy and girl like I feel like that kind of makes that might make your dude smile or vice versa obviously report roles were reversed I just wanna know if anybody thinks that it could be a healthy thing but but there's like a levels to it obviously

Yeah you know sometimes you know I think like both sides we just love the possessiveness you know sad because he just shows that you actually care you know so you actually care for this person like you don't want nobody else to mess with this house what you

I don't believe jealousy is the fruit of anything positive. Jealousy is really rooted in a spirit of insecurity and or control. When you're securing yourself and you don't feel the need to control others, then you don't feel jealous of anyone else.

Yeah, I think there's a place for having that feeling of security and being loved when a man that you're with like cares if another person is being intrusive and trying to get at you, but that's different than jealousy. I think it's like women wanting to feel secure and safe.

To an extent, jealousy can be used to help motivate your partner to make them want their significant other more, but at the same time it could also cause a lot of mischief, mistrust, up dishonesty.

I would say it's normal to feel jealous when somebody else is like watching or or wanting my partner. It's like completely normal but...

I feel like jealousy is 100% natural, but I don't think it's healthy in and of itself. I think being able to recognize that you are jealous and then work on that trigger is healthy, but jealousy in and of itself? Yeah.

Um, yeah, potentially. I mean, if you're like, if you're mature enough and you can use it as motivation like, oh shit, like my girl's getting looks at all the time. I want it. I want that too. Like she deserves someone who gets looked at all the time too.