What makes a relationship equal? Like is there such a thing as an equal relationship?

It depends on what's the wants and needs of that relationship what I might need from that man might not be what he needs from me and vice versa now is he getting what he needs from me while I'm getting what I need for him

I think that's what makes it have some form of equality.

It should start off as equal. It doesn't matter what either person has, right? So the notion of equality does not lie in the balance or the comparison of what we have.

No there's never going to be a quality inside a relationship because the moment that you label it you start comparing each other to like yourselves in your exes it doesn't work out