What are the most subtle red flags in like a boy or a girl when dating or like even a talking stage? Like really subtle ones. I'm not talking about big ones like or like the person has a lot of like friends and opposite sets of them. Like I'm talking about really subtle ones that you need like a I can magnify and go out and see.

The offer for the first day is alcohol to go out and drink either that or it's too chill at the house drink wine and eat fruit both of those mean shush

They hit you the with the what are you doing message late at night but they never text you prior to that

Definitely the tone of your voice if they have a very like soft spoken tone and not so spoken like nice tone like soft-spoken like oh I'm sorry bro you like they wanna be called they want you they want to call you mommy OK do you avoid leave