If you hold yourself to a standard of these rules and not by the affection or the honesty in your emotions, you're doing it wrong. wrong. If you want to sleep with them on the first date, make sure the feeling is correct. Don't wait two days because you have a two-day rule. you're not living authentically.
OMG, I definitely, definitely love this response. I feel as if that we should go out to chemistry of each other and not have to wait a certain time level in order to sleep with someone that you truly like for real.
Okay, so with dating someone that implies that I want to have longevity with this person And if I want to have longevity with somebody then I would genuinely like to have of solid relations and friendship first.
I always found that giving up the cookie way too soon, it just sets the foundations of the relationship itself on sex. And, you know, I mean, that's nothing wrong with that, but for something that I would like to be long term. It has to be
Deeper than sex. So I Say two to three months is a good amount of time. I'm three months feels good Have I ever done this before? No. So I guess I gotta practice what I preach for the next one.
My mom told me way back when I was in high school to always wait three months. I've never waited three months. Hold on, I think I have waited three months. I can remember, but now...
Yeah, because I mean at the end of the day, your mom was on to something. At the end of the day, you know, no matter if what, you don't even know if you really like the person yet and yet like we're putting up and having sexual relations with them and it's like I don't I don't even know if I like you.
So like by having sex too soon, we're like building an instant cord and connection with somebody that we don't even know if we really like. and now emotions are involved in all that junk instead of just waiting it out.