They just don't value your part of the relationship and you know, it's a couple not a fucking throttle So there shouldn't be a third part in the relationship having any say so or in any opinion on what's going on with y'all those are private matters that should stay private between the two of you.

It can get messy when you involve other people in the relationship and stuff so I can see why somebody would think that that's wrong but like when you think about it in a bigger picture do you doing the same thing right now

And it depends on who you're telling like who are you put it in our relationship you know because I don't female friends and them female with male friends like I will not but I'm not gonna go tell my male friend about what the fuck going on in my relationship

Yeah that could be the case but I feel like his mom does it the end of the day you should not have to get relationship advice from anybody you're in a relationship with your partner that person can't give me relationship advice they don't know your partner like you do

Yes, you are very true.