but get it though, it's only if it's from somebody with darker skin if it's somebody with lighter skin or lighter tones, whatever they do not feel a negative way about your positivity they will not question your positivity your positivity is actual positivity but if you are dark at all or they don't know your life or anything like that and you're dark, you have to have a bad life you have to be struggling if you're not then you're lying about all the positive things that you say but let's come on here as a darky and say a bunch of struggle stuff because I've already proven this point if you lie and say you know you're struggling they will believe that they will not believe you if you say that you're doing well having a good day this and that it feels wrong to them dark-skinned women having their self together black women having themselves together other you look less racially ambiguous than others as a mixed person you you have to have that look and aesthetic about yourself if people can't tell that you're a blended person then you're not a blended person that's crazy but yeah the whole thing is is just wild like people have a bias and their gatekeeping who can say that they're doing well or not isn't that crazy they're not not gatekeeping failure they're gatekeeping positivity shout out to those who i've been tuning into that are not doing that to people you know that are not gatekeeping positivity i am really loving y'all shows for real peace and love