Every time you remind someone what you have done for them, you are revealing that your goal was to have a transactional relationship where you can manipulate and control the other person. Always remember that transactional relationships are very unhealthy and will never last a lifetime. Transactional relationships are based on unrealistic expectations that will never be met.

Again, this reminds me of my ex-fiancee situation back in 2008 She literally tried to make me into her first relationship that she had for 7 years Interesting, and she tried to make me and mold me into what he did for her, what everybody else has done for her And I haven't done much of anything, oh, except for pay for rent and pay for 75% of the bills in the house, mmm Mmm.

To continue, I'm thinking like, if that's nothing, then why the hell am I in this relationship? So, after a while when I recognized just how much she did not appreciate, you know, what I did give, as far as being the quote man end quote of the house, of the home, I knew my worth basically, so I knew I couldn't do it anymore. So I waved goodbye and she kicked me out.