We can basically say like before getting married is basically like a free trial about the real life with your partner and what's next to come.

I've been a caregiver since I was eight years old and you know my caregiving days have already passed since last year and it feels like I'm starting life all over again so with that said yeah that's why.

But if our finances weren't the option or weren't a challenge for us right now I would definitely get married in a heartbeat because that is the person I desire to be with for the rest of my life. He is my best friend.

I don't take it as a bad thing. I think that people need time to see everybody's seasons, you know. You have to see me on a good day and a bad day to really understand if you really want to be around all of that.

And vice versa, we are constantly learning each other and breaking down walls and getting into the core of who we are. And sometimes that takes time, you know, but time is not a bad thing. Yeah.

3 years engaged seems like a long time but I hope you guys can make it through it and have a happy ending or happy continuing the relationship.

Like you have to see all sides to your partner because sometimes people change even during the engagement a lot of times like one of the partners will cheat before they get married it could be anything

I totally agree with what you're saying like even before getting engaged I've been in this relationship for about eight months and the past month Have been like a nightmare for me and I'm about to quit the room

Girl it's not an easy process of letting go but it's only gonna save you because if you any for four years in that mini put a ring on it you won't waste your time it's just taking an hour and you don't want that you