so i was thinking about this earlier about how trust issues are basically what either drive people away or bring people together especially romantically so i want to ask you do you have trust issues in relationships or you feel like you do because i will definitely say when i was younger 100 i had low self-esteem i had no confidence i was just really like on edge um but now that i'm older i definitely feel a lot more trusting of the guy i'm seeing but i am not naive like i'm not stupid like if something's being shady like of course i'm going to question it but i definitely trust my partner so there's that but i'm curious to hear your take on this

Yes, I got zero trust

Asking questions is the best route and if somebody's not open to those questions then they're not for you. So honestly for me it's just being more mindful and effective communication and if I can't have effective communication in a relationship we don't need to be together. Like we don't even need to invest time together, you know what I mean? Because that's all it is at the end of the day. You have to tell me what you like and what you want, what you need and I, you know, vice versa. So yeah.

To answer your question, no, I do not have trust issues. Because at this point, you know, it takes two to tango, right? So if there's anything that makes me like, hmm, hmm, I just ask the question. If I don't get the answer, then I wonder, OK, well, clearly, effective communication might not be your strongest suit. How can we work on that? If that's not something that they want to work on, then I need to go, because there's no need. Like, you can't have a relationship without effective communication, period, point blank. And comprehension, of course.