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Hey Sariel and my beautiful Sariel family. I have a question for you. I saw this and I was just like, this is next-level best friendship. This is, you know, they had that crackhead love going on, but I have a question for you. Should your partner, your spouse, really be your best friend? You know, your BFF? Or should they just be what they are? Your husband, your partner, your spouse? Who should be your friend too, but should they be your best friend? You know, should you leave your best friend side to side with your girlfriends or your homeboys? Or is your partner, your spouse, the one that's supposed to ship your best friend, your partner, your spouse, your counselor? Like, do you think that's too many hats for them to wear at one time? Leave me a message, let me know how you feel. Shout out to you guys.
I think you should truly enjoy the person you want to or you've chosen to walk through life with. It shouldn't only be physical, it should be a part of your spirit mentally as well. So, that's what I think. If you don't enjoy, you don't have fun with the person you're walking, choosing to walk through life with, then you chose wrong or you didn't do the work on it.
Absolutely your spouse should be your best friend and the one that you should run to first for anybody else but you do need an external best friend one that's outside your marriage you know so that when you're having issues you can confide in them and they can give you the real deal if they're truly your best friend they're gonna tell you what you're wrong and what you need to fix things that you definitely need to so it's a good wait out system
You see, this is why I like that answer, Granny Rogers, because like your girlfriend is supposed to give it to you raw, and tell you when you're wrong, and baby, you know, and like, no, you're not treating that man right, or no, you know you ain't got no business doing that. But see, I'm a little sensitive, and sometimes I don't need my husband saying shit, but to listen. Right? That's his role. I don't need him telling me if I'm wrong or right, or if I was wrong to curse out my coworker at work, he is just to listen to my story. Not telling me, now, baby, you know you're wrong.
Yes, I do think that, you know, your spouse should be your friend. I think in any relationship or friendship or whatever, you have to build on a friendship. Like, the more you build, the more layers there are to a friendship, which is why, you know, relationship are like onions, there's lots of layers, and some, that's why, you know, relationships and people can be very complicated, because it's just, we are.
I like that you're, you're, you're, especially your spouse or like in my case my husband right there's different roles he plays. Sometimes he's the leader, sometimes he's the best friend, sometimes my cuddle buddy. So yeah there's different roles and different layers in a relationship. Sometimes he's my best friend and we gossip. So you know there's different layers and different times moments for his roles. Thank you Frenchie.
I agree on having an external and internal best friend that means your husband your best friend or your spouse period whoever that is and a friend outside of that relationship so you can you know sometimes you need to vent
You need to be able to vent inside and vent outside. Just a little bit. You know what I mean? And plus a husband friendship is something different. I can't even explain it. It's more than just being a best friend. I wish I could explain it better than, he's just a different type of best friend, but it's just different. Yeah, I agree with you. Thanks for commenting.
Hmm, okay, speaking as a single person, what I would expect is for that person to be one of my best friends, not the best friend, okay, because I feel like they will never ever replace my best friend, like she's someone that I would tell, I feel like I would tell her more than I would tell him, and that's why I'm saying that I was a single person, so I don't know, that could change, but yes, but yeah, definitely 100%, like there's someone that you can.
As a married woman, as you said from a single woman point of view, um, yeah, one of my best friends. He's not like the best friend of the one and only, no other friends around, but he's definitely one of my best friends. That's how I look at it. I don't want him to be my, because if I turn him into my one and only best friend, right? I'm not trying to turn him into my girlfriend. Some things that...
I don't know what he's saying cut me off at, but it's just certain things me. I'm just not gonna do that's my husband That's my best friend, but it's certain activities, you know That's for my girl best friend. That's for my bestie That's my husband Like it's a different kind of friendship there. I wish you can understand. I just say it's a husband friendship It's a different kind of friendship different set of rules the difference Different set of boundaries in this friendship, so it's a husband friendship
How y'all doin? Nah, I don't think your spouse, your partner should be your best friend. Uh, I mean, it's bad enough you gotta spend time with the motherfucker. You know, every day, fuck that. You need time to yourself and make somebody that doesn't live with you your best friend. That way y'all can do some crazy shit together. But you won't find out until you ask.