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Okay, so for this question, I feel like it depends because sometimes it could be whoever asks the date first could usually pay but Normally, I'd be like, you know what? I'll pay for the date and usually I pay for the day after that unless we be like, okay I'll do it. No, I do it, you know like a back you know, I'm not gonna do it. I'm not gonna do it. I'm not gonna do it
Like back and forth, like I remember when I went out to eat and when it came time for the bill, I was like, I'll pay and she was like, no, no, no, I'll pay. And then we went back and forth for like, you know, like a minute and then we were laughing. And then all of a sudden I ended up letting her pay, which was like a first for me. And I was like, okay, okay, that's different.
As I've learned different things and I've talked to other people throughout my time, just in life, I realize sometimes it's okay for the woman to pay and for the man to pay. It just depends on the dynamic and what you guys like.
It should be the person who asked the person. So if I invited you on a date, then I should pay. If you invite me on a date, you should pay. It's that simple. Or go Dutch.
The person who should pay is on a first date is the person that asked the other person out. Like if you are the asker then you should pay in my personal opinion.
Whoever invites you out to eat should pay for it. Whether it's the woman inviting the man, the man inviting the woman, the one who instigates it should pay for it. But if you just stopped and you were walking down the street and just stopped someplace, nobody has to.
And if you're sitting down and you've eaten and somebody offers to pay for it, you should be gracious enough to accept it, whether you're the man or the woman.
Whoever invited the other person out is who pays. If I'm coming because you have this idea, you invited me out, then you pay. But if I'm real excited about something and I invite you, I'm going to pay.
Finally someone got some muddled sense. I would agree with you on this one. I know I'm totally great sometimes on people on here but I'm great of you more because if someone has gone on a date it's not always about men or women it's about who you invite.
The man is the one who should pay the first date, don't ask me why. And by the way, they can serve it as a red flag if the man didn't pay the first date.
This shouldn't be up for debate. The man always pays for the date. Plain and simple. There is no debate about it. A real man will pay for the date. That's it. There should be no discussion about it. Like, just let me pay the date. I'm the leader.
I think on a first date, I think going Dutch is the ideal thing. I don't think it's right that the guy has to automatically pay for the date. So until you're certain that something further is going to come along, I think that it's only fair to pay for the date.