So when it comes to harmless or not so serious secrets that someone tells you, do you actually keep it to yourself or do you end up telling someone? Like be honest.

you know what I used to tell secrets and then I seen people would tell your business without even having to be asked about you and I've also been well I don't think I've ever told somebody secret that I can remember I don't think anybody ever told me some real secret if she they might have told me not

They might have told me not to tell somebody's business. I don't consider that a secret because, I mean, I don't think they told you this information in confidence that it would stay between you and them and then you came back and told me. I just think that it was an open discussion between you and that individual and you just decided that you wanted to go fucking gossip. You know what I'm saying? So, um, I think there's a fine line there.

I do end up keeping the secret.

I mean depends who you are if you're like close to me like a friend Like a close friend. Yeah, sure. I will but like if you're some like girl named Emily No, I honestly won't

Read a little bit of philosophy, Socrates had a three filter rule about how to process information coming from someone else and I kind of follow that and it's made my life a lot better.