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So with all the travel going on this summer, I wanted to ask you guys how do you deal with others on vacation or holiday as some of us call it, especially when that person's getting on your nerves because oh my goodness, you know, I've said it before and I'll say it again. I am confrontational, I don't mind speaking up for myself and standing up for others and all that, but you know, when you're on vacation, the vibes are different. And I personally find myself getting more annoyed and mad. I don't know, maybe it's because of, you know, the stress of not knowing entirely like what's going on. I don't know, I don't know, but going back to the subject here, I feel like I would love some suggestions on this because for me, I just shut down. Like, I, you know, I don't want to say something and start a fight and so I'll like **** my tongue, you know, but if it gets really bad, I'll speak up and be like, okay, that's enough. This is what's going on. I don't appreciate it, that person doesn't appreciate it and you know we got to fix this before we move on. But yeah that's where I'm coming from but I definitely want to hear where you're coming from.
I take a moment of silence for myself whether it be mad early in the morning you know before everybody wakes up I go ahead I go downstairs to the lounge I get my coffee I go outside I take in the views I breathe and then I do the same thing at night without the coffee you know but I just unwind and I get out so So yeah, just make sure I have a moment of... USA
This is actually a really good question because I went on a trip with one of my friends and my mom had her friend come over with her daughter and her daughter's friend. So we were all hanging out and she met this guy at this pier that we went to and she literally left us for him and it's about to cut me off but yeah she left us for this guy that she She met three hours ago.
And she basically ignored us the entire time that she was talking to this guy, and so once we got back to our little condo, hotel room, whatever you want to call it, we all asked her like, hey, why'd you leave us behind? Because she even left her friend behind. She left all of us behind, and I've known this girl for 15 years. and it's gonna cut me off again, but whatever.
She made a big ass fucking deal about it and I was like, girl, you left us for some guy that you met hours ago. You don't even know him. And we kept getting red flags off of him because he kept talking about sex with her. And so we were like, no, we don't like this guy, we don't think he's good for you, whatever, whatever. And she was basically giving us all attitudes the rest of the trip. And I told her, if you're gonna be like that, I'm not gonna talk to you anymore. So we cut her off and now we're not runs.
Oh my gosh, thank you for taking the time to explain that whole situation. Ugh, I'm so sorry that even happened. And actually, I do know of something like that that happened in my circle so many years ago. And it's so annoying. So, yeah, really totally get it. And you know what? I think it is definitely best that you guys aren't friends anymore because clearly she picked a total stranger over someone she knew for years. You said like 15 years? that's crazy.
Genuinely, and yes, I knew her for a very long time. I am 15 years old. I've known her my entire life basically. Um, and the fact that she chose a complete stranger over her friends is crazy to me. It's crazy to think about because I would never do that to my friends. So yeah, I really think that it is best that we're not friends anymore because I know that should probably do it again.
This part really isn't that important to the story, but we went to the pool the day after all of this happened. And I asked her if I could wear her goggles and they broke on my head. And I spent like 10 or 20 minutes looking for the little plastic piece that went in the pool. Could not find it. And she calls my mom saying that I broke them on purpose and I got grounded. and I got grounded and me and my friend had to go back to the hotel that we were staying at and we stayed there the entire day because I got in trouble.
You probably don't want to listen to all this, but her mother is a narcissist. She will literally sit there and make everything about herself, and she defends her daughter over anything. And I mean anything. She truly believes that her daughter does not do anything wrong, even though this girl was hugged up on that boy the entire time and left us behind. And she was also talking about sex, and not knowing anything about sex.
Oh my gosh, no, you're totally fine to keep talking about this. Like, please feel free to share as much as you feel comfortable talking about, you know? But I really do appreciate you responding back because honestly, I'm shocked. Even just hearing what you said, it takes me back to my middle school, high school days. Oh gosh. Yeah, you guys are definitely better off not being in each other's lives because that's just way too messy and you know, you gotta protect your peace.
Seriously, and her entire life, like, she has a good family life, but she treats her mom like shit. She disrespects her all the time. Um, I'm guessing it's because she's very, very spoiled. She lives in a nice house, but never picks up after herself. She's always talking back, and I just think she needs to learn her lesson to just not be that fucking rude to people. But yeah, thanks for listening!