Good evening everyone and happy Saturday yes it's Saturday tomorrow is Sunday so if you listen to it's out here sidenote checking in and today's been a busy day it got up to 90° here in the Neosho Missouri area which is super cool And I snagged a 24 foot above ground pool with all the stuff for free from Facebook marketplace so I consider myself a winner so if you listen to my other quick soundbites there's one where I talk like I finished it Talking about like how you ask the question in the freezing of questions better questions matter. And in that soundbite I mentioned that your subconscious mind Hass to answer every question that you ask it even if it Hass to make it even if it makes it up that's where both memories come from and the deal with that is you need to also pay attention to you How you're asking a question so back whenever I was a life coach I would have all I specialize in working with women and our intimacy connection that kind of stuff and I would have women come in and you know they would say like why cannot why can't I lose weight and the thing with that is you're gonna get all the answers to why you can't lose weight instead of asking the how can I or what actions do I need to take her what do I need to do to lose the weight because the other thing to keep in mind who's that the universe isn't speaking negative Simon Sinek talks about this too if I tell you don't think of an elephant you're gonna think of an elephant if I say I need you to draw a sign draw me an image sign that is going to be universally understood that says don't think of an elephant you're going to literally draw an elephant with a circle and slash through it so realize that so make sure you're paying attention to how are you