So I was talking to a couple of my friends and they were telling me that they've moved in with their partner before marriage because the cost of rent is getting higher and higher and it's just easier. You save money and you just kind of see how the person is. But I just want to know would you consider that? Like would you live together with your partner before marriage? Because I know everyone is very different and for me personally I could see myself doing that one day just not right now but we'll see yeah knock on wood it all goes well in the future but Yeah, I'm just curious to hear your take on this.

Yeah I think it's important for me personally to see what kind of habits this person has and if it's compatible with yours obviously there's pros and cons to everything but I think it would be OK to live together

Yes, as long as it's a long term, it likes to show.

Only if we've been together for a long time so that when we live together I'm not like surprised by what they do

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Oh yeah I think you have to I think you have to live with them before getting married because then you get to know things that you don't already know like I don't know just little things and no I think it is important to live with someone even for like even if it's just three or four months before marrying them I think it's really important

There's only one thing and one caveat to this if I'm gonna be moving in with my significant other that's a girlfriend that we need to be together for at least like two years before we actually do that have a clear understanding of whose roles is going to be for whom

Let's say I actually live with my partner we didn't get married and yeah I would say that doing that really definitely taught me that he's not the one that I wanna marry and he's not someone that I can live with so yeah it does help to do that before getting married because once you're married you know it's a commitment and it's not easy to just break it off

So I personally did move in and bought a house with my P.L.A. before we got married and we got married like later that year or so. but yeah I didn't see anything wrong with it at the time.