I'm so glad you brought that up because I have known so many people who moved in and they basically played house. They didn't realize the financial commitment or you know they didn't realize like how much it really like affects the relationship. And you know a lot of them have plans to marry so they do it as a first step. But when things end it's awkward because it's like okay well who's gonna have the place or you know it's a lot. So I think people should be more responsible in terms of moving in so great point

Well yeah I mean if you're splitting the place and then that is one of the problems that arises but if a place is given to someone under the fall sky as of it's you know your place and then you're literally monitored 24 seven in the place to the point where you're suffocating and can't do anything that's not giving somebody a place so that you can understand who they are as a person and grow them in a relationship that's gel

Women here would be wise to understand that they have been groomed from a very young age to think and behave in ways that will keep them trapped in generational poverty and otherwise in generational stagnation. And yes, I consider most people in the middle class to be poor. For most of them, their largest so-called asset is their home, which they do not own and statistically never will. Their wealth is imaginary at best. They are poor. They are struggling. Their relationships are terrible and it's because of the decisions they are making.

Yeah, I see where you're coming from because actually a lot of my friends have the same minds that you do and even myself to an extent. But I do want to ask you in what ways would you prepare yourself for marriage if it's not living together? Because I'm just curious. I'm not judging you. I'm just wanting to know because I feel like there's just so many different ways. So to hear it from somebody like yourself would be really nice. And also if a guy were to ask you, hey, let's move in before marriage, what would you say to him?

The first question is a fair one, but there's no simple way to answer it. I have to take women through an entire paradigm shift about marriage because that's how far off they've been let astray. I even have to change their very conceptualization of marriage because their current one is shaped by the terrible marriages they've seen and the ideas they've consumed via media, social media, and books. So I could list off some things, but I can also guarantee that you won't be able to integrate them into your current paradigm. They just won't make any sense.

Popping back in real quick to say that I did a method that would be considered extraordinarily restrictive to an outsider But the restrictions are not in place just for the sake of it They're there because they are the best possible means of finding the right person Today's methods are all but guaranteed to bond the wrong people together Because they're based upon distracting us from the fact that we don't like each other. We biochemically react to each other Yes, but we don't like each other We think we do what we don't and we're not even going to discover that we don't until the biochemical distractions cease after a few years.

A large part of what I do is teach women how to discern if they actually like a man, because they don't know. They think they do, but they don't. They know if they biochemically react to a man, but they don't know if they like him. And when it comes down to it, they don't like all of these so-called restrictions because they don't like the lack of distractions, and they don't want to come to terms with the fact that they don't like this man, but they still want to be with them. for now.

I say so-called restrictions because that's how an outsider would view it. But it's not about restrictions. I teach a mindset that at its core is an unwillingness to be the wife of a man who has not married you. And all that entails. It's about finding the right person. And this goes to your question about marriage prep. It's baked into the cake with this method, but you won't understand it without the paradigm shift.

Oh wow, you know what? I'm actually really happy for you and you know obviously with your circumstance and the timeframe it makes complete sense. So I'm wishing you and your family all the health and happiness in the world.