What is up my stereo family so on how would you guys deal with family members not liking you and as far as you know you've never done anything wrong but they just don't like you maybe you're more motivated than they are maybe your house is bigger than theirs maybe you work harder than they do him maybe you drive a better vehicle or you have a better job but all of those things prove that you are you know you are you're a go-getter that basically you handle your business to make sure that you can afford defining things in life if you want to say those things finer things so And my family like I've always felt like certain people in my family just hated you know that you can hear them talk behind your back like you have someone call you and then they don't hang up the phone they don't hang up the phone and then like you put your phone down but then you go back and you realize that this person is talking about you or they call you when you don't answer the phone and then they don't hang up their phone and you hear this long drawn out message on your voicemail so that's happened to me with certain people in my family and it's just like you know I'm to the point now where I don't have to fool with you like blood makes you related respect and love makes you family and if you can't respect me or love me like those those things that I just mention that's not love that he then I don't have to rock with you you know what I mean so if any of that it doesn't have to be the same scenario but if any of that has been your case how do you how have you guys dealt with it and do you ever even talk back to those family members Do you know cause I can forgive you I forgive all day long but I don't have to be around you you know so that's my little story but short

I likely haven't had to deal with any family members hating me or at least I don't I don't know of any that are like jealous or anything but I do know that for my uncle his in-laws are just always after him for some reason and this has been going on for many years I don't know how he handles it I honestly would cut them off that's what I would do because you don't want that bad energy

Me personally, I just cut them off. I don't need anyone in my life who is jealous of me, envious of me I don't need any negative energy around me. I Just feel like it has no place. Everything around me has to be positive, uplifting and inspiring and you know, if it just so happens that a family member doesn't fit in that circle, they have to go. Like you can't be worried about the whole, oh, they're your family, they're your blood. If they're not good for you, they have to go. And you don't have to go out of your way to be ugly, just cut contact.

I've been reading a how to deal with a narcissist and it's a lot of it has to do with investing in yourself and staying very clear boundaries and learning how to assert yourself and never being passive being honest and forthright yet maintaining a cordial disposition And acknowledging your mistakes a lot to do with self-awareness and setting boundaries and respecting