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The sweetest girl in the world reached out to me about a situation she's dealing with in hopes of having us give her advice. So here goes. Something happened between her and her best friend's brother, who by the way, he started it, and to a point where she felt really uncomfortable. And she went to her best friend to tell her what was going on. Her best friend did not believe her and sided with with the brother. I'm not sure if he admitted or denied it, but point is they're no longer friends. So what would you say to this girl or anyone who's going through a tough friendship breakup? Because I told her that her feelings are so valid and it's okay to have a bad day. Healing is not linear and she won't always feel this way. And she's much better off because to have really toxic environments like that not good for anyone. So I feel like this was a blessing in disguise that she was able to separate to break herself from them. But, you know, I wanna hear what you guys have to say.
This sucks I just feel like I don't know as a woman like personally me like I have a brother and I feel like if my friend were to come to me about it I would definitely speak to my brother about it and definitely do some thing about it like not just let it slide because I'm all about women I'm all about like not respecting women you know that's not OK and it sucks that she's dealing with that because you know obviously it's her friend and her best friend Then Should
Honestly like friendship because I have a heart I lost a good friend couple of year to go on and like it can be really hard but you will get through it like anywhere that's a good for you you know but Take your time or he'll like a crown like paste you know
Yeah, I totally agree. I lost a friend too and me and Hung had a fallout. It wasn't like no girl situation and like that, but it's sort of like we just outgrew each other but I definitely feel what you're saying.
I know what it's like to lose a best friend and it definitely sucks but it's better for her to just be around people who care for her and are willing to stand up for her and willing to really believe her so if that's not her best friend then I'm glad that she is not in around her
Yeah, I feel like a friend would have been there like to be there to comfort the other friend. That's definitely not the best friend. She probably knew that her brother was on at tape time.
Friendship break ups are really tough but if your friend in believe you or like just straight up stop being your friend because you were trying to seek help about her brother being inappropriate As hard as it is it's better to not have that friend in your life it's good to know now get rid of her there will be people in your life also it really is true friends come and go and there's there's you know really solid ones he can hold onto but
I would just say like friendship breakups are a lot like regular breakups like you go through highs and lows and you get reminded about things and then it takes you back to like all the hurting and then some days you're just like good and then I don't know where it'll come back sometimes it's like a happy remembering so it's really tough but just Just keep going and eventually it'll start to
Eventually the herding will just fade away and you'll just be left with the good memories and you can just reflect on that and you'll find someone else who gets you more and who would respect you enough to at least hear your side and want to protect you the way that you should be protected. So I think this is a good thing even though it hurts.
I absolutely love how much effort you put into your answer to let this girl know that she is seen and heard. I have massive respect for you and I hope you have a wonderful weekend and Let's too hope this girl has a wonderful weekend as well.
And I feel like all of those good memories gonna fade away. The hurt is the one that's gonna stay because something happened with her and the brother, you know what I mean? So it's like really like how do I get over that if I'm at a hurting point in my life? And my best friend who brother it was ain't even there for me. That's like a pain that you don't really get over that type of pain.
I'm actually going through a friendship break up and I can tell you for free like be receptive to the way people treat you when this situation happened I think I wasn't I was shocked by how I was treated by someone who claimed that they loved me and you know we spent so much time together
Although your feelings are valid in the situation it doesn't mean like you should lock off the other persons feelings and POV however I do tend to feel a little bit like if I thought a situation to you why are you not making it about yourself you know I'm the one that's upset and I think a lot of us we just wanna we just wanna show that we are right and you know not listen to the other person which is wrong
Me personally at the end of the day people come and go and that's just how life is one advice I'd give her is if something is gone something will always be replaced with better ask her just say no hard feelings and move on in life I guess
I feel like she should have took at least a minute to hear the girl out and talk to her brother or sit them both down together or something like that. To try to eliminate any tension between the two but just not being friends anymore or just believing whatever she had to say. crazy.
Yo, I feel like you're right, you hit that one right on the nose. I feel like friendship breakups are tough, but if she's not being like a friend and hearing you out about what happened with her brother, then that's like really not no friend. You know what I mean? And you're right. I'm glad she did get rid of that friend early before something worse could have happened. Not with me