Okay, this may have to be two parts. So me and my ma, blah, can't even talk today. Oh my goodness. So me and my husband had our first date night in over two years. It was great. It was amazing, except for the part about coming home and not for the reasons you think. There were four main reasons it was not good coming home. First was we were greeted by the toddler holding a empty bottle of dish soap that was brand knew when we left. Second was that my younger two had messy diapers when we got home and I am always sure to change them before I leave to go anywhere because I like to hand over clean children. Third, the baby likes to be left alone when she's tired so we told our mother-in-law several times before we left if she's getting fussy and you don't really know what she wants. Lay her in bed because she just wants to be left alone to go to sleep. She wants to put herself to sleep. Nothing we trained her to do. She just does it that way. And then fourth, while they were letting the toddler do all this, they had their feet propped up in our reclining chairs, like not even paying attention to the children when we walked in the door. And then fifth, they did not even feed the baby at all when we were gone. And we were gone for about two and a half hours so I know she was hungry because she was sleeping when we left so she did not eat right before we left. So that was quite upsetting. I mean I feel like my children were not even cared for. I'm kind of a mama bear when it comes to my children so needless to say me and my husband will probably not have date night anytime soon. It will probably be several more years again before we we have date night.