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Could you take them back if they cheated I have always been someone who has said you know Chetan is an absolute dealbreaker for me I have been there before and I have walked away and I will walk away again if it ever happens I just don't understand how you expect me to move forward when you have broken the trust and loyalty I just don't see myself with that person whether it was public You know public embarrassment or if it was done in secret whether people found out or not I am not going back to you I just know it will be great to hear what you guys own thoughts are on that would you take the person back do you think you know once a cheater always a cheater would absolutely be great to hear your thoughts
Yeah, there's no big explanation for this. No. Why the f- Cause the thing is I already had a partner that sat there and cheated on me when we were still together. Within two days of her not talking to me, she said, Oh well, no, this is not a sex man or the guy. What the f*** do you mean, it's not a sex man or the guy? Am I not giving you enough dick or something like that? Are you f***ing dead ass? It's the thought of realizing there is someone else in them, it gives me so f***ing angry. No, I would not take it back.
Your anger is very much valid like I hear you thank you so much for sharing that I definitely just and part of that no I'm not gonna take it back to you because no how dare you
Absolutely not. I would never take back a cheater. Don't get me wrong. I always tell people that you know what? Second and third chances are a good idea, but never in this. No. It's like the trust is broken there's just no coming back from that. No way.
Melina, I feel your passion and I absolutely agree. For me it's a massive no-no, you've broken my trust. I will hold it against you forever so we might as well just move on.
No, actually men do take women who have cheated back. I've seen it multiple times. They usually do it though when it's not publicly known. But I do see men take women back who have cheated.
Honestly I hate you you honestly just need to know your self-worth and walk away because it takes a lot I feel like it takes a lot to cheat and if you can go through that then no
I could never because it'll be in the back of my mind forever. So yeah, definitely not walking back into a situation where I've been disrespected in in the most disrespectful way.
I agree, like I just will be thinking about it all the time, I won't be able to unsee it. It's just best that I leave the situation so we can both move on, you know?
You know what I got to say majority of my life. I had that same idea. I had the same idea if I got cheated on that's it deal-breaker, right? but I've been with my wife for 12 years now. We've been married seven and That is someone that first of all, I didn't realize that I would ever be able to love someone so much, but that's someone I want to grow with you know and And, you know, you have to be mature enough to say, Okay, why did they do that?
The whole point is to grow with that person and you know if you're not if you're not willing Enable to sit down and say okay, and what was I doing wrong? What was I not doing to lead them to to make those decisions and and if they are also not able to sit down and Reflect and and figure out what they did and realized that they was wrong then that's not it.
Okay I hear what you're trying to say but I think you're moving in the wrong direction cheating it and stepping out of your relationship and marriage should not be something where you be like oh what did I do wrong they weren't thinking about you in the moment you want a priority so why would you think what did I do wrong I just think that's the wrong way to look at it but each to their own and thank you so much for sharing your opinion
Yeah, that's fair. I mean, you're right. I mean, all of this is just opinions, right? And you write 100% to each their own. But I still think it is 100% a valid question to ask in multiple scenarios because, yeah, sorry for the notification noise. Yeah, 100%, they might not have been thinking about you in the moment. And that's what led them to cheating. But how do we know that it was because your repetitive lack of thinking of them is what led them to do that? You don't until you have a conversation.
Now granted in a lot of those instances You might be completely unintentionally Not thinking of them in whatever you're doing or lack thereof right, but it's it's all about how it's interpreted It's all about how you Interpret my message right how you interpret my actions like that like I can intent my intent can be a hundred percent positive, but am I actually doing the right things? Right? That's where it comes