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How do you guys feel about age gaps? So I feel like Honestly like if you're an old couple where like shit the dude is 80 and You know the girl is 60 obviously who cares because they've been through Relatively the same amount of life, right? But I think it's weird when the age gap is 18 and you know the other person is 30 or 25 only because at that point the person that's 30 or 25 they've been through things already so they I feel like know how to manipulate an 18 year old and that goes for both men and women boys and girls like yeah but anyways how do you guys feel about age gaps let me know I'm I'm ready to hear it.
Yes I OK with you if someone's 18 in the dating someone a significant amount of years older 30 even like more than like three even then it's still a little bit questionable like someone that is 18 should probably be dating someone that's eating that like in all reality So my thoughts on age gaps are dependent on the ages
This is always an interesting topic to discuss and I think that definitely between like the ages of like 18 up until maybe 25 It's like such a huge amount of growth that happens within those years that I think that dating someone much much older in those ages is kind of like a a bit weird but obviously each to their own and if that works and it works I've seen like
I've seen many different views on this and I've had friends that had partners that were a lot older than them but at that time they were kind of not 18 themselves, they would be around their mid 20s maybe and they would just feel like they aligned with the partner in the sense of like all the big things in life and stuff.
So I think that's probably the biggest problem that people in relationships with huge age gaps will come across unless you're aligned on what you want out of life and when you're ready for certain stuff depending on where your relationship is going. But I definitely think the younger you are, the more weird it is And I feel like it has to be like a quite mature person if the youngest person is like super young.
So me myself, my husband and I, we have an age gap of 11 years and I'm not afraid to say it because I am definitely well in my 20s but I've also experienced been through things myself but also he didn't even like it's not like he's out here seeking like he was dating people that were or women that were his age but it just happened that you know our views and everything aligned well at this point You know?
I do also think it's weird when like older guys are older, you know, girls date, you know, the younger opposite or same. I feel like it's a little bit manipulative because obviously, you know, this 18 year old, they're just getting their little adulthood and here they are trying to manipulate that. And that can sometimes be traumatizing for that person and they don't even know that. Um, so you know, but yeah.
That's no problem. Definitely, you know, join the conversation. But it's good that at least you can see this while you're young and at least, you know, yeah, three years for you is that's a good amount, you know. But yeah, all I will say is when you're young, there's some things you don't always see or it's crazy how much enlightenment you kind of get as you get older. But yeah.
OK I actually hear this sometimes but yeah I am I have a preference with age groups on like if you're like a 30+ year old man or woman I will swipe left because I'm not trying to fuck no one's dad or mom
I think half your age +7 years is a pretty good rule of thumb but I don't know I guess that means like it would be okay for like a 24-year-old and a 19-year-old like that's kinda weird but I mean I guess it depends on the person at that point like you're already old enough to make your own decisions you know
I agree with you there. I feel like it just, it definitely does depend on where you are at in your life because even 19 for me is like, but like I said, I want to also be clear to no judgment here on what you think. Like I want you to express, you know, what you feel. Um, but yeah, no, I've, I don't know. It's just for me, I think experience goes such a long way. Um, and I know, you know, mentally women kind of mature or forced to mature faster, Yeah.
I know someone who's like mid 50s, 56 I want to say, and they're dating a woman who's 30 and they've been dating for like five years. It's like a 25, 26 year gap and I don't know it's just weird honestly. It's like you were a whole ass adult before she was even born. That's just me though. I don't know. works for them, but from the outside it's weird.
Oh my gosh, yes. I think, yeah, it's, yeah, that is so crazy. I mean, okay, so we can look at it like, yeah, they were definitely an adult, a whole adult before the person was even born, but on the bright side, it seems like it's working out for them though. Maybe that 30 year old was looking for a real maturity factor that they couldn't find. And maybe the older person was like, I need some space.
My parents were 14 years apart grew up in a time where are you didn't know whether that mattered or not because they didn't share that much with you but I do get you on the younger years versus the older years in the younger years I think maturity and emotional intelligence comes in the play and I can call some problems
No, I get that. My grandparents, I think, were a part of that era for sure because they did have an age gap. I don't remember the specific age range, but they genuinely loved each other so much. And yeah, no, I get you for sure.
Obviously if there's a two to three year age gap up and down so three years below three to two years below three to two years above It's all right, but it also kind of depends on the age like if you're a 30 year old They like a 22 year old or something. It's not really a problem. Do you know what I mean? but obviously it becomes a problem when there's a significant age gap of 20-30 plus but each sit out all in it.
Don't even get me started bro, first of all, it does not matter for me if you're legal bro, if you're 10 and you're 20 and you're 30 nah, if you're 22 and you're 30 nah, but 23, okay, we can discuss that and so on and so forth. You should not be messing with anybody when you're 19, when you're 30, regardless.
Period, I agree with you there for sure. I just, you know, it's an experience thing. Like that 19 year old has not been an adult that long, like two years, or a year, sorry, my bad. So yeah.