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Okay, mommas, I really need you guys' feedback on this. So, do you think it's a mom's responsibility to constantly, like, you know, tell their kids, like, what they're supposed to do and, like, how to, like, you know, constantly educate them and, like, remind them of their values and... because like there's some times that I noticed that my brother does certain things and I'm like why didn't my mom like teach him any better you know I kind of blame my mom for some stuff I personally do think that in a way mom's to hold that responsibility not like every single thing but there's like really core values that kids establish at a really young age that over time if a mom doesn't correct them or make certain things better they will carry that for their whole life and it will reflect on their relationships and whoever they surround themselves with. Like for example last night I needed something from the garage and the garage is like a block away kind of like going down, yeah, it's like a block away from where we live. It's in the same block, it's just like, it's just like a walking distance, you know, and it was like late at night. And I told my brother, I was like, hey, you know, can you please get me the diapers there in the garage? And usually he goes and gets them, right? But yesterday he decided to say, like, why don't you just go out, take care of the baby? And I was like, dude, it's fucking dark, like it's night. You really gonna let me go alone? Like, you don't do this, like, I hope you don't do this to your daughter. It's like, I'm a woman, like, you know, If it was during the day, like, okay, but it's late at night, it's dark, like, you're a male, like, why don't you just go? And then, like, I just have to tell him, like, you know, like, this is why I blame my mom for certain stuff. Like, like, why didn't my mom teach you any better than this? And then we went on on a whole argument, but yeah.
This is a really interesting topic. I do think that moms but also dads. Okay, literally both parties in the house. If there's two moms and they're gay, both moms in the house need to stand full force together.
Because if only one party is reinforcing it, the kid is going to think that it's okay to not, because the other party is not reinforcing it. I think that even if moms tell their kids a thousand times these values, the kid has to decide on their own.
that these beliefs and values are exactly what I need. And, you know, I know that, like, my mama told me things, and up until now, sometimes things haven't clicked. for your brother, your mom could have like completely instilled in and he just had a moment where he didn't want to
So I don't believe that everything goes on the mother at all. It also goes on the grandparents if they were taking care of the kid. It goes on whoever the kid is around often, you know, like the teachers and the friends, stuff like that.
Like there's a lot of factors that play out how a kid develops and sees the world. So I do think that it is a mom's job as well, but I think it's society's job as well. It cannot just be on one person. And that's not fair.
So I think it depends on the age that the kid is at. So I have a younger brother too and he's actually almost 20, but his mentality is literally like a 13 year old. It like makes me so mad because if I feel like he would do the same thing that your brother is doing, like he just wouldn't think.
I feel like moms can do so much when the child is young and growing, but I feel like once they start to hit adulthood I would start blaming the like the kid, you know I would start blaming my brother, definitely at this point, because he's old enough to know and to be-
But at the same time I feel like my parents babied him too much and didn't teach him like proper I guess just a proper way of doing things, you know, being a gentleman and things like that.
I think it definitely matters that the parents teach their kids how are used I think that's ours like one of her biggest responsibilities as parents but I also think like
I also think that you can do all you can to teach your kids correct values, but it's, you know, then as they get older and become adults it's their responsibility to decide if they're going to
To decide if they want to keep those values or not but yes I do think it's silly the parents decision to raise them in good values because otherwise they don't know what are used to choose
Yes, I do think it's the parents' responsibility, especially like kids, they pick up on what they see. So I feel like teaching as well as setting good examples of those values and if they decide to keep them, they keep them.
I think dads need to pay a part in this but for mothers because most of them are at home they are sort of the first teacher when it comes to the kids so definitely teach them and that is the point.
100% I think that that's one of the reasons why we are parents is that we are supposed to impart healthy values to our children and of course once they're old enough they can make their own decisions by setting a positive and healthy foundation is a sin