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Mom's eyes need advice my toddler is about 18 months and a half and he's in the stage where he's starting to hit me and he is starting to not listen to me when I tell him to stop and then I have tried a method of like you know I'm just telling him like gentle soft whenever he does hit me and showing him how to do it and he just when I should try to show him he just hates me and hits me and right now I am running away from him because he is trying to hit me Like what are you doing any tips and tricks please help me
I'm not a mom but I am an aunt and I do watch my nephew every day and he's going through the same thing right now he likes to like throw things he has to kick me he likes not listen he likes to say no a lot all that type of shit
What I've been trying to do is just like not responding to the behavior because I Notice that when I respond he like he likes the attention So like if he throws something, I'll just pick it up and put it away. I don't respond to that behavior.
I noticed the kind of feet off of the reaction you get if you get angry or you react all extra but sometimes it hurts but I just try to move away so please don't hit me or else that hurts you know be gentle that everything
Swimming that works for me when he's misbehaving is usually who wants something and he can't he can't have it so he'll cry and I'll be like OK do you want this instead so if if you can't give them what they want try to find an alternative that works for you to distract them from whatever
Girl, yes, I was in the same situation. So what I did was basically if they tried hitting me, right? I'd push them on the floor, I grab their leg, and then I take them to the nearest window and it has to be the highest window, and I throw them outside. If they're alive, I stomp on them if they're dead then they're dead.
Honestly as a mother on what I do is I'd get my golf putter and then slowly putting my kid down the street to the neighbours leave it come back and you'll never have to
oh this is so hard i'm so sorry um because it's hard at that age my son did that as well and it's like they understand a little bit but at the same time they don't fully understand so it's really hard to like obviously rationalize with a
With a baby with my son I would just say like no like an ally kind of a not like yelling or anything really kind of like a more stern voice and then we even did time out like I'd have to stay right by him but I would explain I was like OK time out and
Hello, so I am on the same page as you. I have a toddler that also just hits out of nowhere and I feel like they're just at this stage where you know they're just
So as I was saying I feel like it's a normal phase of a toddler as long as it's not getting out of my control But whenever my daughter does do this I try to redirect her to some thing you know
Before getting cut off, I was saying trying to redirect her to something more appropriate would also work. but I was also going to mention that ignoring
And so during the week and I took my daughter to an indoor playground and I was kind of embarrassed because this is her first time that she pulled on a little girls hair so
You know, it caught me off guard, so I just didn't know how to react to it. And all I said was, that's not very nice. you're hurting other people's feelings and so she did it again.
And so once she did it again I just like I said I did not expect her to do it again and so I said we need to take a break and we're getting out of the playground and so I took her out and of course she had it
But I think this is all like normal and like toddler it's just a phase that they go through there regulating their emotions and I mean we have to teach our little ones the appropriate way
Little kid I'm not a mom but I'll be babysitting my little cousins and I just kind a firm with them and I just be like hey don't put your heads at me again that's gonna raise my voice because like I feel like they understand that you're not on me
I work in a nursery I'm not a mother sort it as well when we have babies are like heavy-handed we get charts and be putting stickers on them as they go on our with using their gentle hands
Sure I really rushed out because I don't milliseconds in one and one but yeah just get a charger and then start to bring that into the equation be like you get a sticker future gentle hands like