If you are in a relationship, I am 100% certain you have been cheated on Either in the past or the present tense And you may say, oh, I've known people who've been together for 30 years I've known people who have been together for 50 years And they've never been into cheating or anything like that And I'm here to tell you, that's just something that you don't know Why would someone who's been together for 30 years why would they tell you that they've been cheated on by their husband 57 times why would they tell you that like literally who that's embarrassing that's embarrassing that's embarrassing so the another word and key from the wise is that if you've known someone who's been together longer than i would really say three years more than likely they've been cheated on and if they don't admit to it it's one of two things either they're they are unaware of it or to be honest they're They're embarrassed and who wouldn't be?