I'm learning that friendship is about being around people who you can genuinely be mad around and not be mad at. What I mean is, if I go around, say, quote-unquote, a person that I hang around a lot or which I would call a bestie, I go around them and I'm telling them why I'm mad. They allow me to fuse off, they allow me to pop off, they allow me to get it out and not judge me because they know none of that anger has anything to do with them. They accept me, and vice versa. A lot of y'all friendships don't accept y'all, and when y'all get mad, they call it trauma dumping. Well, maybe it's just you're not that friend with that person, enough for them to be able to be open with what's going on in their life. Or you're not that friend that's helping guide them through these points in life, and they continuously bring it up to you. What's y'all thoughts about trauma dumping and what a real friend is?

okay I'm gonna try this again hey Jojo yeah a real friend if I consider you to be a friend or a bestie that means you're somebody I can go to that I know I can go to and vice versa and we can rely on each other like that to share how we feel and like you said not being mad at each other but sharing what we're going through and I would not consider that being

Like I said, I would not consider that trauma dumping because how could I if you're my friend? No, that that for me that doesn't work because I I love you I would not consider not saying that you know, we got Sure, you may feel like some some people are trauma dumping but it or maybe family But if you're if I love you, no, I'm just gonna be like listen what you got to say if you want some input Give it but just know that you're just

But I would just know that you're just sharing how you feel about that certain situation. So, yeah, no trauma dumping, unless it is in another situation. But for me, it would be, I just got my friends back because that's what I'm there for. We're there for each other that way.