So I feel like dating a female is a lot different than dating a guy. I know for a fact it is. And over the weekend we actually got asked, we were out at a party, and my girlfriend got asked how do we deal with each other on our periods? I guess it a lot because instead of just one person, it's two. And you know we responded saying that it definitely hits us, there's a mutual understanding that hey I know around this time you're gonna potentially be a little bit more emotional a little more dramatic a little low energy just a little bit more sensitive so we have noticed what works for the other person during this time what does not and just kind of it allows us to brush things off a lot quicker whenever we're you know it's that time of the month so yeah I'm curious to does your partner know when it's coming and are they right or and like are they understanding or do they make you feel like shit and kind of gaslight you and the fact that your hormones are changing but trying to pretend like they're actually not because they do and it is a real thing.