I've never caught my ex cheating life, but I would go after him because he's the one that's supposed to be loyal to me and my really in our relationship. But if it was like my best friend or sister, then I'm going after that bitch first with the hell because that's, you know, I mean, that's family. You're supposed to be my sister and my best friend. Fuck that *****. If it's a deed and some random chick, I'm definitely going after the deed.