If you like started dating someone but you guys somehow brushed off the topic of like wanting to get married or necessarily dating to marry but you've already like fell for them they took off every box and they literally are everything you could potentially want and more but you find out that they don't ever want to get married I personally am in a predicament Currently where there is a guy that I've been thinking that I really really really like but right now he's just not concerned about me I'm not in a rush anything by any means but I just feel like that's some thing you have to value and I feel like he's a little jaded and heartbroken but I'm not the type of person to think I can change someone so like what would I feel like it because I feel like things changed and it's not like people change their minds every day but I can't I wouldn't say that I would take them as serious considering I'm in a part of my life right now eventually I really want to settle down so I guess I would have to just be a serious conversation but what would y'all do

Oh I don't know that's not an option for me because one of the first questions I ask is are they planning to get married are they planning to have kids because if they automatically say no to either of those that's when I'm like OK like then there's no point us to keep talking because those are things that I want

Well personally I would reassess my feelings when it comes about getting married and I know that I wanna get married with my partner who I really care about doesn't wanna get married and I guess that's not the person for me because I want to get married one day what's the point of being with someone that doesn't have the same sort of life goals as you because when you start resent them because they didn't want to marry you want to be married do you want to status you can't blame them at that point