How much do you really have to take of feel like a single parent before your family just say fuck it and get up and leave because lately I've just been feeling you know that feeling and nothings been changed and I don't really want to go to a job with her because I'm pretty sure a lot of you get that idea but yeah I am just struggling lately and I think the best would be just her you know focus on myself and my child rather than being in a relationship or you're just feeling a single parent constantly

That is really hard and if you've had that conversation with your partner and they're still not responding That makes it even harder, especially as time goes by if Things, you know are a certain way and you're doing all of the work It just sort of stays that way and doesn't change Unless it's changed Early if that makes sense It just becomes the norm and then it's kind of too late.

I think everybody's boundaries are different, but I would say that if your boundaries are being crossed and he's not listening, then maybe you need to take it to the next level, you don't deserve to be a single parent in a relationship.

So if you really think about it if a person isn't really contributing the way they need to you're kind of already a single parent so if I were you I would listen to my intuition and get my stuff get my child and get ready for a new beginning

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Girl when I was pregnant I was like a month pregnant and that was I caught him cheating and I was not happy in my relationship and I broke up with him the same day I caught him cheating and I haven't heard I mean not I've been a single mom ever since he only has met my son once and my son is 19 months and he is yeah he's not any good right now

And I would say it's definitely not easy being a single mom but I think is definitely better being a single mom and not have to deal with another child that it's like freaking older in an adult you know so I totally get what it's like to be in position and I would I'm not here to pressure you or anything but I would say that just get yourself financially good and then that we have a little bit of cushion and then do you girl

I don't know. I guess only you can really know that. You only know what's best for yourself and for your family. But I mean obviously everyone knows not to feel the need to stay with one another for the kids.