And not to mention you could forgive somebody but and you may not like bring it up ever again or whatever but I feel like that's always gonna be in the back of your mind

yeah I'm with you definitely all the way in the back of the mind always I tried being with an ex after they cheated and it just it's very hard to let go of it It literally is impossible.

Yeah it really is hard to forget I'm glad you realized you're worth though like loved yourself enough to leave you know it's not easy

Yeah, definitely not easy at all, but I do appreciate that. definitely took some self-love and diligent effort to get out of that.

Okay, so the takeaway for me was I think I can't I think which not very a sherry you think or you know you can there's kind of a difference

You alright man? You need someone to talk to? Um, yeah, it's a little sad.

So I think the situation can be a little tricky but at the same time not that tricky because if someone kisses you to be completely honest you you are giving them some sort of signal to think that it is okay to kiss you.

Like, I used to be the girl that I would accept all the flirting and I wouldn't necessarily flirt back but I would accept it which essentially like you're still partaking in the flirting process because you are accepting of it and you are letting it happen. not saying, A, like,

You know what I'm saying? Like, hey, like the way that you're treating me is not just a friend, it's actually more. And even if they're like, oh, it's just like a friend. Well, no, come on. We all know when someone likes you a little bit, so don't let them be in your face. and then they probably won't kiss you.

Now I do think that there are some dumbasses that even if you're not being flirtatious towards each other they may make a move but come on if someone kisses you you were a little close and touchy touchy and a little emotional mentally and physically for them to do that. Come on.

So even though you didn't take the initiative to do the kissing, you still initiated and partook in the flirting process which led it to that. Like, you gotta take responsibility for the situations that you put yourself in at the end of the day.

Okay, so as your point, if you're being neglected and you're being abused, then I can understand the reasoning. I don't agree with it. But why wouldn't you just leave the person? If that person is lacking so hard, go get someone that would not.

And actually fuck that understanding comment that I just made because truthfully you can communicate with your partner like Communicate communication is fucking key and if they don't understand that try again, and if not fucking leave them don't you?