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So I just need to ask you a few questions. Is he away most of the time? Is he keeping distance? Is he spacing out? Is he lashing out about small things? Because if you feel that he is doing, I don't know, he's being defensive over small things, he's not acknowledging you enough, not giving you enough time, I think, yeah, he is definitely cheating.

First of all, I just want to say my heart goes out to you and second of all gut feelings are guardian angels I'm really incredibly sorry that this is happening to you Please please please trust your instincts and for anyone that's like trolling you or this post or anything I really hope that you don't let it get to you because you know what being nice costs nothing And I know that you're being vulnerable right now by sharing this with us and by the way, you're not losing him You're gaining yourself in this situation. So please know that too

Um, well, I'm no expert, but I would say that you could try working this out, but if you have all these suspicions, I don't know, I think it may be time to go, but whatever you decide to do, just know that you need to do things for yourself and to love yourself.

I don't understand, well I don't understand, but I feel like you should break up. Why? Because your boyfriend is hiding things from you. Not only is he not letting you see his phone, but getting defensive when you ask about his friend, or her friend, or I don't know, his friend. So, I don't think you should be in that relationship.

No one cares.

We don't care, monkey.

Um, so in situations like this, give him what I call the last supper of relationship talks. Sit down, talk with him, discuss the issue, ask for him to change. Um, ask for him. First of all, would you need to get him to, um, show you his phone? Like, I'm not saying you need to, but talk with him about that. If he still does not want you to, then I'm sorry, bro. That's the last supper talk, then you just leave him.

I'm sure I'm not the only one but he's cheating you know I'm saying you cannot ignore the red flags you know I'm saying you got to listen to your intuition but you gotta leave man pack your bags