At one point in my life, I couldn't stand gay men because if I was dating a girl that had a gay best friend, they would keep up a lot of drama. And I felt like only women, I felt like women will only keep up drama. I wasn't expecting that from a man, even if the man liked other men. So I feel like, you know, now I believe that if you're going to be gay, you can be gay. Just don't be flamboyant.