This is such an interesting perspective. Major turnoff is a nice guy. May I ask why? Because the nice men are usually, for the most part, the healthy men. And that we need to be attracted to the healthy men that are nice, because dysfunction is usually...

By default with women, and this is because I follow a pastor and he talks about the healthy man, broken man, toxic man. He's like, us women can be attracted to dysfunction by default because something about the dysfunction is exciting, which we need to be attracted to.

We need to be attracted to the healthy man. So just curious about why a nice guy is a turnoff.

The nice guy I met based on my experience are usually fake. They're pretending to be nice.

Also, if she has like any like toxic traits, like let's say like she likes to make me jealous or if she likes attention from everyone in the room or like, you know, just when we are in public If she likes to start arguments because she thinks it's cute like nah, I can't do that.

Also, if she doesn't value my time as I'm big on time and efficiency, because I don't like wasting my time. If we're going to plan something or talk about something, then I'm not all about it. No, you can't just leave me hanging or delay it.