Imma be honest, you both in the wrong. Uh, cheating is wrong, and yeah, I get it, she cheated on you first, but it, that's not the way to go. It's, first you tell her, you basically tell her that you cheated, that she cheated on you, then she, and, uh, you found out that she cheated on you, and then you tell her, we're done, and then you go date someone else, so it's not counted as cheating.