whenever they got like a guy best friend or whenever they they burn smoke and shit

When they mentioned their ex, I mentioned that they got out of a relationship, like, months ago.

Biggest red flag is when they don't keep in contact with their family because their family has done them dirty and they don't have any close friends because all of their close friends have wronged them. So they're basically a singular person with no one in their life. And you're the only person in their life. Yeah. Definitely big red flags because you have to realize the type of person who always says it's everybody else but never wants to be a part of it.