Almost like, submissive tummy, I'll put it this way, like, there's compassion needed, right, but that compassion is through being a dick, through being an asshole. Now, I'm not saying every woman wants that, I'm just saying this is like a, seems like a general thing that is going on, um, you know, but yeah, if you're putting yourself out there in a position where you're giving money or trying to be helpful, you are literally sometimes called a simp, but I wouldn't know.