So I'm just trying to see something. Do you feel that you and your partner share kind of like equal responsibilities between like your housework or like bills or maybe taking care of the kids or Maybe not even necessarily equal, but do you think it's fair like the responsibilities are shared fairly For example like my boyfriend obviously goes to work and he works a ton and I'm a stay-at-home mom and we're so grateful that we're able to do that. But at the same time, he kind of just comes home and just, oh, he wants to relax right away. It's like, I don't get a chance to really relax until way after the kids are in bed. And I get up really early and even get up in the middle of the night, or you know what I mean? I feel like it's not all the time fair. And then if something needs to get done right away, I feel like I'm the type of person to just get it done, you know We're we were looking for a place so I initiated that like sense of okay Let's start looking into places for rent or maybe a house to buy and I started contacting people right away And I started sending emails out like I'm the person to just take initiative and And my boyfriend is just not like that. But anyway, what's it like in your relationship? Let me know.